Collars and leashes

A collar around the neck (could be a specific BDSM leather collar or a simple choker) can be a symbol of submission. Often combined with a leash for the dom to lead the sub around or pull gently during sex. Make sure the collar is not too tight and has a safe quick release in case of emergency. The feeling of a leash tug can be very arousing for those in sub headspace (it says “you’re mine, I guide you”).