The Universe of Pleasure

A complete list of ways to spark desire and sexual pleasure.

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Contrast textures

Alternate between two very different feelings. For example, glide something smooth and cool (a metal spoon or a glass toy) on their skin, then immediately follow with something warm and soft (your warm hand or a piece of fleece). Or use your bare hand on one part of their body and a glove or cloth on another simultaneously. The brain lights up comparing the two sensations.