Humiliation/degradation

Consensual mild insults or embarrassment as arousal. This ranges from very light (“You’ve been naughty and deserve a spanking”) to more explicit name-calling or degrading tasks (like the sub must beg or say filthy self-deprecating phrases). Only do what you’ve both agreed is okay – some people like being called a “slut” or “slave,” others might find that hurtful. If you do go there, have a repair ritual: e.g. after the scene, lots of loving praise and reminders that it was roleplay and they’re respected. This ensures no lasting hurt feelings.