Manual genital stimulation

Using hands/fingers on your partner’s genitals (commonly known as handjob, fingering). There are countless ways to make this “basic” act exciting: use different strokes and grips on a penis (twist as you stroke, squeeze the head with a circle made by thumb and index, use two hands for a “double” stroke). For a vulva, try different finger motions (circling the clitoris, back-and-forth rub, gentle tapping, or rubbing through the hood for indirect touch). Internal finger play: insert one or two fingers into the vagina and curl in a “come hither” motion to find the G-spot, or press upward on the front wall. Combine internal and external (one hand rubbing clit while other stimulates inside). You can even incorporate mild spanking or tapping of the vulva or penis for a jolt. Use lubricant to enhance glide and sensation. Watch your partner’s reactions and adjust technique to what makes them moan more.