Menus

Create a mini “menu” of choices (like three options for what to do first, three options for what toy to use, etc.). One partner either chooses directly, or for more surprise, one partner prepares a menu and the other says e.g., “I’ll take option B,” without knowing exactly – then reveal and do it. You can include a “chef’s choice” wildcard meaning the initiator gets to pick a mystery option if the decider can’t choose. Also give each a one-time veto token if truly not in the mood for what chance dictates.