Watch erotic content together

This could be porn or sensual films. Rather than silently watching, treat it as an interactive thing: comment on what looks enticing, even say “Let’s try that position next.” One approach is to mimic the action – e.g., while a couple on screen undresses, you start undressing each other; when they start touching, you do too, effectively synchronizing with the video narrative. Afterwards, talk about which scenes turned you on and why (maybe write those down for future inspiration).