Weight and pinning

If your partner is comfortable, gently pin them or cover them with your body weight (e.g. straddle their thighs while kissing them, or gently hold their wrists down by their head). The feeling of weight can be arousing as a form of dominance/trust, as long as you check they’re okay (they should still be able to breathe and signal). Tiny movements while holding them down – like a subtle grind – can drive them wild, since they can’t easily move.